Question 1

How far in advance should I book?

Accepted Answer

For engagements from 2 to 12 hours, at least 48 hours, subject to availability — the earlier you enquire, the better. For Day & Night, The Weekend Escape and The Grand Escape, at least 1 to 2 weeks: 1 week for Day & Night and The Weekend Escape, 2 weeks for The Grand Escape.

Question 2

Do you meet in every city listed?

Accepted Answer

All the most common destinations are listed across the site. Belgium, the Netherlands, and nearby Germany I reach by car. London, Switzerland, Monaco, Dubai, and further German cities I reach by invitation, by air. Singapore is also by invitation. For upcoming tours and new dates, the private newsletter is the best place to stay informed.

Question 3

Is same-day availability ever possible?

Accepted Answer

No — not in any city, not at any price, and not for any sum offered to change that. My diary is built weeks ahead, not hours.

Question 4

What confirms a booking, and how much is the deposit?

Accepted Answer

A twenty-five percent deposit for engagements of 2 to 12 hours within driving distance. A fifty percent deposit for anything beyond driving distance, or for Day & Night, The Weekend Escape and The Grand Escape, where all travel-related expenses are also paid in full before departure. Nothing else confirms a date.

Question 5

What happens if I need to cancel?

Accepted Answer

For the shorter tiers: cancel less than 48 hours before and the deposit is forfeited; cancel more than 48 hours before and it's not refunded but transferable once to a new date, subject to availability. For the longer tiers involving travel: cancel more than 7 days before and the deposit is transferable once, though unrecoverable prepaid travel expenses remain at your expense; cancel within 7 days and the deposit and all travel expenses are forfeited in full, with no refund or rescheduling.

Question 6

What happens if you need to cancel?

Accepted Answer

This is rare, but it can happen. If I need to cancel, the deposit is refunded in full, using the same method it was paid with — or, if you prefer, the engagement is rescheduled to a later date, subject to availability.

Question 7

How is the remaining balance paid?

Accepted Answer

In cash, on arrival, on the day of the appointment.

Question 8

Are your rates negotiable?

Accepted Answer

No. Terms and rates stand as written, and I send no further photographs.

Question 9

Will I be asked to verify my identity?

Accepted Answer

Only for anything beyond driving distance. Within Belgium, the Netherlands, and nearby Germany, a deposit alone confirms the date. Verification is asked of you because meetings are arranged directly, between two people who have not met before.

Question 10

What exactly do you ask of me, and why?

Accepted Answer

Your real name, verified once — never asked for again after. The city, the hotel, and the date: four stars minimum, five when I travel to you, never a private home. And a deposit, which holds the date; nothing else does. A reference from another verifiable, established companion you've already met is not required, but always appreciated.

Question 11

Is what I share with you kept private?

Accepted Answer

Yes. It is never repeated — not to friends, not to colleagues, not to another client, not once. It is never published — no name, no city, no recognisable detail appears anywhere I write. And it is not kept — verification documents are deleted once the date is confirmed.

Question 12

Will you send me more photos before we meet?

Accepted Answer

No. Terms and rates stand as written, and I send no further photographs.

Question 13

What should I include in my first message?

Accepted Answer

Your preferred meeting place, the date, the time of day, the duration you have in mind, your name, and a few words about yourself — always welcome, though never required.

Question 14

Where do you meet clients?

Accepted Answer

Four- and five-star hotels only. I do not travel to private homes, and I do not receive at my own address.

Question 15

Do you travel outside the countries listed?

Accepted Answer

India and Singapore are considered, case by case, with the same fifty percent deposit and travel terms as other long-haul destinations. Anywhere else is considered too, case by case, by private arrangement.

Question 16

Do minimum durations vary by exact location?

Accepted Answer

Yes. The durations shown on each country page are for information only — actual minimums may vary and increase depending on the exact meeting location and the time of the appointment. Travel time is what ultimately defines the minimum.

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