There's no script. It usually starts slowly — a drink, a conversation that finds its own pace, the kind of ease that either happens naturally or doesn't. Everything that follows is a matter of feeling, not planning: unhurried, genuinely present, shaped by whoever I'm with rather than a fixed idea of how things should go.

Your preferred meeting place, the date, the time of day, the duration you have in mind, your name, and a few words about yourself

I meet exclusively in four- and five-star hotels, private wellness venues, fine dining restaurants, museums, or other mutually agreed public locations. I do not travel to clients' private homes for first meetings, and I do not receive guests at my own address.

All the most common destinations are listed across the site. Belgium, the Netherlands, and nearby Germany I reach by car. London, Switzerland, Monaco, Dubai, and further German cities I reach by invitation, by air. Singapore is also by invitation. For upcoming tours and new dates, the private newsletter is the best place to stay informed.

India and Singapore are considered, case by case, with the same fifty percent deposit and travel terms as other long-haul destinations. Anywhere else is considered too, case by case, by private arrangement.

Yes. The durations shown on each country page are for information only — actual minimums may vary and increase depending on the exact meeting location and the time of the appointment. Travel time is what ultimately defines the minimum.